Affirmation Friday: My Vibe is of Utmost Importance

Happy May Day, Everyone!

Affirm: My vibe is of utmost importance. It is the set point from which my manifestations take place.

A lot of people are concerned with keeping a good grasp on “reality,” which in their minds is another word for everything that has disappointed them in life. “I can’t think about this, because if it doesn’t happen, I will be devastated.” “I have to remember that he could never love me.” “I have to prepare for the worst.” We’re concerned with external conditions, more so than internal ones, not realizing that the external is only mirroring the internal.

The flip-side of this is that when we are focused on our internal worlds, we can quickly become disappointed with ourselves for not always being able to maintain a joyful or peaceful vibe. However, this self-criticism does nothing to boost positive momentum, and if we are spending time berating ourselves, we are again not treating our vibe as important. The solution can be as simple as realizing, “This isn’t good for me right now. I’m going to disengage the best I can, and if I can’t do that, I will distract myself to the best of my ability.”

You are important. How you feel is important. I know it’s easy to fall back into habits like scrolling Facebook to see what other people are up to, or read energy forecasts that make us feel anxious about the future. (I’ve unfollowed most of the Tarot readers I used to like, even if I still like them, simply because of how their readings make me feel, or because they draw my awareness to lack.) Be very present with yourself when you do these seemingly small, habitual actions. Observe how they make you feel. If how they make you feel is anything other than at peace or good, you may want to consider cutting them out of your daily routine.

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February 2019 Reading

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Vibe for February  7 of Wands + Knight of Cups + 8 of Wands. We get what we believe or what we notice the most.

There is a sense of being on higher ground or having reached the summit but not realizing it yet. Changing your vibe can feel like a battle at first. Or this could be a literal battle with people or situations around you. I feel like these confrontations are small, but they leave an impression, nonetheless. Confirmations of your improvement may be invisible right now. Do your best to remain un-bothered. Knight of Cups has the right idea. He’s riding away from the battle, drawn toward something or someone that he loves. Then the energy shifts to the 8 of Wands, which is progress.

We get what we believe or notice the most.

It is not spiritual bypassing to choose to focus on what’s working for you. The cup the Knight carries shows that he has a heart and healthy sense of compassion when it’s needed. It’s true that maybe he wears his rose-colored glasses sometimes, but it’s not doing anyone any harm. When our cups are full, we can be of better service to others.

Forgive yourself when you get swept away by your problems, but know that any moment is a chance to start over. You don’t need to wait for tomorrow. Things can change on a dime any second. It all depends on where your energy is focused. Use the breath for clearing and re-routing when your thoughts are going haywire. You’re doing so well and you’ve already made progress. This will become more visible as February progresses.

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